Hear Me Universe
#10. willing to make it all about me
All. Not all the time, but from time to time, I want it ALL. Like how it was when I was a kid, and it was my birthday, and I got to have my way all day long. So, I like birthday-days and birthday-hours and birthday-moments. Mostly, I like choosing what feels best to me and being honored for that choice.
Claiming this desire can still feel uncomfortable at times for me. There's been some deep energy in me that places a priority on sacrifice, so extremely that it becomes martyrdom and, as far as I can tell, playing the martyr is the fastest path of feeling powerless.
Don't confuse a focus on SELF as being SELFISH and don't fall into the scarcity mindset that says, "if I feel awesome, someone else must feel less than awesome." That's false and limiting and minimizing.