This is one of only two items on my love list written to declare what I did NOT want. I wrote this requirement to attract a match to my generosity and my giving nature. To be aware of something greater than myself, I must see me as part of a whole, connected to a bigger concept than just my own world. Self-absorbed people don’t see the big picture, are extremely opinionated, and impose on others selfishly.I believe that we are all part of a vast universe, all connected to each other through a great power, and I wanted to call in a match to my beliefs—someone with a real sense of empathy and who sees through the illusion of separation.