Defining your boundaries means trusting yourself to know what’s best for you. The tricky thing about boundaries is that today’s may look different than tomorrow’s, and it’s having confidence in your own inner guidance that allows your boundaries to be both firm and flexible. Experience teaches, and I wrote this item on my love list with the intention of inviting a partner who was committed to learning about himself. One of the greatest gifts we can give to ourselves is a curiosity about who we are and how we desire to move forward to become the next, best version of ourselves.Firmly saying, “today, I know this and today, I am this,” while remaining open to throwing out today’s belief in favor of new, wiser ones that serves you better is a growth mindset and is the art of living fully.Invite yourself to examine your own boundaries. Assess which are serving you and which you’ve outgrown. Be both resolved and adaptable.