As in the definitive men's magazine, with style advice and more. I think “gq” is a sort of urban-dictionary term to describe a guy who cares about how he looks and how he dresses. So, yeah, I declared it: I wanted to attract someone who likes to show up dressed for the occasion—whatever the occasion is. Someone who has “range,” is how my husband describes himself. When we first met, he indicated his comfort in any setting—black tie or ragged jeans. I loved this description.

It may seem that #26 is vain or shallow. It’s not. There’s an energy connected to this that’s greater than the clothes we wear. It’s an energy of putting ourselves in places and situations and opportunities that invite new experiences—experiences that bump up against our upper limits and help us grow.